What
is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to us and 90%
of life is decided by how we react. What does this mean? We really have
no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from
breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole
schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control
over this 10%.
The
other 90% is different. We determine the other 90%. How? By our
reactions! We cannot control a red light, but we can control our
reaction. We should not let anyone tell us otherwise; we can control how
we react.
Let’s
use an example. A business man is eating breakfast with his family. His
daughter knocks over a cup of